13 ways to make 2013 the BEST year ev-er!!

To start off this new year, I wanted to write a post about goals and resolutions. I began a list of things that I wanted to accomplish and thought, why would YOU want to read something that I want to do. So instead, I came up with a list to help you, me, your aunt Clara, and whomever else, make 2013 the BEST year EV-ER!!

DON’T JUST BE A “PINNER”, BE A DOER.
With the introduction of Pinterest, we now have a billion and one ideas at our fingertips to have a home-cooked meal on our table 365 days a year, fabulous parties planned, home-made prom dresses made and tips to make us the best photographers (even with a point and shoot). We have dozens of helps and tips to help us with our hobbies. The problem is some of us have made pinning more of the hobby, instead of the means. Do some of those ideas you pinned . . . then turn around and pin it ; )

BE MORE HANDSFREE
With the advancement of technology, it is not uncommon to see a cell phone in everyones’ hands. I’m guilty of this. It’s become an appendage as well as a time suck. Put the phone done and step away. You’d be amazed at the amounts of time you’d have by not looking at your phone all day long.

SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOUR FAMILY—CREATE NEW TRADITIONS.
All of my best memories are of things I’ve done with my family. Doing things together are the things your kids are going to remember. Making traditions helps create a closeness and you guessed it—more memories. It doesn’t have to be elaborate. When we lived in Hawaii, after a big cleaning day in our home, it was a given that we’d go to the beach, then get a pizza afterwards for dinner. My kids always declared that “this was the life.”

BE ADVENTUROUS – EXPLORE NEW PLACES, NEAR & FAR
When we first moved back to Hawaii, we went on many field trips. I took my kids to see things that I hadn’t ever seen, as well as places that I knew they’d enjoy. I loved going and seeing new places. Get out there and see the things that everyone travels miles to see. Then if circumstances permit, travel to other states to see what sights and adventures other places have to offer.

DON’T FORGET YOUR SPIRITUAL ANCHOR
As time goes on, you will (if you haven’t already), encounter things that will make life hard. When life gets hard, it’s easy to get discouraged and throw in the towel. Believe me, I’ve been ready to throw that towel a time or two. Whatever your faith, connect with it daily. For me it’s reading scriptures and praying E-V-E-R-D-A-Y! On many occasions, I’ve gone many days not connecting spiritually and wouldn’t you know it, those are the times when the hope is low and the discouragement high. That daily connection will help uplift you, and give you hope no matter what is happening.

DO MORE FOR OTHERS, BE KIND
How great would our world be if we did more for others. Whether it was for our children or complete strangers, just the simple act of being kind makes a great difference in someone’s day. Not only does it uplift others, but it also uplifts your own soul and helps us forget our troubles. Find ways to use your talents or new goals to help others and serve.

FOLLOW A PASSION
If you are already following your passion, awesome! Now find ways to improve on it – there’s always room. If you’ve had that secret goal of doing something—DO IT!! Let it start as a hobby. Having a hobby is a good way to de-stress, be creative and explore new things. Who knows? It could grow into something bigger.

HAVE SOME ORGANIZATION
This is one of my biggest downfalls. I’ve learned over the years, whether you’re running a home or making a new goal, there needs to be some organization. You need to have a plan laid out with how you want things to operate. The best way is to write it all down and then execute. It gives you a clear picture and believe it or not, peace of mind.

MAKE HEALTH A PRIORITY
I don’t think I need to elaborate too much on this. Being healthy just makes you happier.

HAVE PATIENCE AND BE REAL
Whatever your goals are, there will be setbacks. Whatever you do in life, there will be curve balls thrown. That’s when you take a step back and regroup. Have patience. Some problems make take a while to fix. Some problems can’t be fixed, and that’s when we accept it and make the adjustments that are needed. This is where #5 comes into play.

DO YOUR BEST IN ALL YOU DO
Whether you are at work, in your home—always do you BEST! Doing your best leaves little room for regret.

RELAX
Don’t forget to take time out and enjoy the view.Go to the beach with your kids, out on a date with your honey, or a night out with the girls. Put the schedules on the side and have some fun. Recharge those batteries. You’ll thank me later.

RECORD IT ALL!
The best part about the year when you get to the end, is looking back on all that you’ve done. Pick a medium: journal, blog, photo album … whatever! Just choose one and stick with it. Record all your good times, and bad times. Write down how you felt, who was there, and what you did. You will love seeing, reading and reliving your accomplishments. You will smile, give yourself a pat on the back and be ready to take on the next year!

Now get out there have the BEST 2013 EV-ER!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

The Busy Coconut

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